The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference.
Elie Wiesel


Each time a man stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope... and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current that can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance. ~Robert F. Kennedy


We must not, in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we often cannot foresee.
Marian Wright Edelman
Showing posts with label Pediatric Cancer Research. Show all posts
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28 September 2008

Recognizing Luck,Paul Newman and The Hole in the Wall Gang Camps

" I was part of my times", Paul Newman to Barbara Walters,2008

"I'm a great believer in luck..good luck, bad luck, medium luck... my interest in philanthropy is a composite picture of all that..what could be better than to hold your hand out to people less fortunate than you are..."

He believed it was all about luck. He was an Actor with a capital A. He was a Director, an Activist, an extraordinary Philanthropist, a passionate and successful Race car driver("Racing gives me grace", he would say)...and Yes he was a Legend...a word that we toss around too lightly and one that would certainly make him cringe. He defined Cool. He was sexy, seductive, tough, charming, funny,smart...perfect even in his flaws.

Butch Cassidy screenwriter William Goldman said of him "...I don’t think Paul Newman really thinks he is Paul Newman in his head.” He spent most of his career avoiding being "Paul Newman"...the "Paul Newman" the world created was not how he led his life and he would credit his success to "Newman's luck".

'If my eyes should ever turn brown, my career is shot to hell," he once said. Yes, there were those penetrating, unsettling, pools of blue that were so much a part of his icon status. He was considered the most beautiful man in film...and he was, but he hated it.


He wore dark glasses and often went out in public in disguise to avoid attention. If someone asked him to take off his glasses to see "those eyes" he would reply"..If I do that my pants will fall down"

Paul Newman Lived his life. Everything he attempted he did with drive and focus. He never wanted or sought the blinding fame he achieved but he maintained his own style and his mystique through decades in the spotlight. Paul Newman lost his very private battle with cancer Friday and suddenly we all feel old. Though his loss is not a shock given the reports of his declining health, it is still hard to believe that this gorgeous lion of the acting world is gone...he always seemed indomitable, and certainly on film he always will be.

Hud



Paul Newman once said ...acting is like letting your pants down...you're exposed."

He began his career at the Actor's Studio and got his first major role in Somebody Up There Likes Me playing Rockie Graziano, a role James Dean was slotted to play and he died in a car crash before shooting began. The rest is screen history-characters and films that will be benchmarks of Hollywood history and tutorials in acting style...Hud, Fast Eddie Felson, Brick, Butch,Harper, Cool Hand Luke... He didn't want to be a star, his celebrity he felt cut off his freedom to do the work he wanted to do ...the fact that he was able to dismiss his star status and do great work on screen, stage and behind the camera illustrates Paul Newman,his commitment to doing it his way.

The Sting

Eventually he became more comfortable in the skin of his fame and learned to make it work to create change and do good."...I didn't turn in my citizenship card when I got my screen actors card..." he said. He was one of a select group of actors who marched with Dr. King and in 1968 he campaigned for Eugene McCarthy resulting in finding himself on Nixon's enemies list.



1958,DNC Convention

In 1982 he started his salad dressing business as a joke since his neighbors all clamored for his homemade recipe.

Like everything he did with both fun and determination the company turned a profit in the first year. The business expanded to sauces, popcorn...resulting in over $250 million dollars donated to charities. In 1988 the Hole in the Wall Gang Camps,named from Butch Cassidy's gang, was founded to welcome children with cancer and blood related illnesses and provide them with a place to be just kids. There are now camps all around the world providing fun and a sense of normalcy to ill children.

“I wish I could recall with clarity the impulse that compelled me to help bring this camp into being. I’d be pleased if I could announce a motive of lofty purpose. I’ve been accused of compassion, of altruism, of devotion to Christian, Hebrew, and Moslem ethic, but however desperate I am to claim ownership of a high ideal, I cannot. I wanted, I think, to acknowledge Luck; the chance of it, the benevolence of it in my life, and the brutality of it in the lives of others, made especially savage for children because they may not be allowed the good fortune of a lifetime to correct it.” - Paul Newman.


The extraordinary thing about Paul Newman is that his life lived in the spotlight outshone that light. He was not the cardboard star and the footprints he left on this world were not simply made of the iconic celluloid images we cherish. His legacy is his work- Not just as an actor, whose gifts we may never see again, but also as a man who recognized that what he saw as his luck could bring joy and hope to so many whose lives were met with simple bad luck. Thank you Paul, I hope you know the impression those eyes left on the world inwhich you acted.



To make a donation to the Hole in the Wall Camps visit Hole in the Wall Camps

21 July 2008

When Life Brings Lemons...Fighting Childhood Cancer One Cup at a Time

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"I'm Alex, I'm 8 years old. I have Neuroblastoma and I raise money for pediatric cancer research with the help of other kids and grown ups through my lemonade stand. I give the money I raise to research to find cures for pediatric cancers. " Alexandra Scott 1996-2004

Like many little girls Alexandra Scott wanted to set up a Lemonade Stand in her front yard, but Alex was not just any little girl. First of all she was all of 4 years old when she made this entrepreneurial decision and she also made the decision that the profits from her lemonade stand would go directly to her doctors to find a cure for other children like herself, children with cancer-"...because all kids want their tumors to go away." Alex's first stand raised over $2,000 for her hospital.

For the next 4 years as Alex battled her illness she set up her stand to raise money for pediatric cancer research. Alex lost her fight in 2004 but she left an extraordinary legacy as her single gesture to give hope and raise awareness inspired thousands to set up their own Lemonade Stands and contribute to Alex's wish to help. Alex raised over 1 million dollars in her short life. Imagine, all from one amazing little girl's simple idea.

What began as Alex's stand in her front yard has grown into thousands of lemonade stands and fundraising efforts in schools, corporations and communities across the country. Since Alex's first stand in 2000 over 7,000 Alex's Lemonade Stands have raised money and brought awareness to the fight for pediatric cancer research. As of this month, July 2008, The Alex's Lemonade Stand Foundation has raised over 20 million dollars for pediatric cancer research, donating millions to cancer centers and research facilities working to find a cure. ALSF's Lemonade Days on June 6.7 and 8 involved over 2000 lemonade stands nationwide. Major corporations have adopted Alex's cause and helped to ensure that her wish to help and find a cure continues. Volvo has established the Alexandra Scott Butterfly Foundation award given to a child who like Alex shows caring and character. Other companies donate a percentage of their sales or their products such as Country Time Lemonade and Stacy's Chips. This Wednesday July 23 Blue Tulip will donate 15% of their proceeds to ALSF. Go shop!

On most days in the summer I wear a necklace and bracelet designed by Elyse Rosenstock of Elyse Ryan, made of pink and yellow crystals in memory of Alex and in support of ALSF. People often comment on them and I love the story that Alex helped Elyse with the design and now those pieces of jewelry are helping Alex's foundation grow.


Making giving so simple, so accessible, and teaching children the importance of helping and giving back are just some of the reasons I love and support this foundation. Every cup of lemonade does make a difference in the fight to find a cure for childhood cancer. Thenof course there is the memory of Alex herself,truly a special light who left a legacy and a lesson of turning heartbreak into hope.